Iris Bicksler
When her best friend became pregnant at age 19, South
Eugene grad Iris Bicksler wanted to help. "I called a
midwifery school in town and learned about becoming a
doula," she says. Doula is a new word for the ancient
practice of women supporting other women through pregnancy,
childbirth, and motherhood. A midwife works with the
physical side of birth, while a doula provides emotional and
educational support. "I did the training and became a birth
junky," says Bicksler, who was also pursuing women's studies
at the UO. "I helped with friends and worked for free with
teen clients." She married Ben Dechter, now a third-grade
teacher, in 2000, and gave birth at home to their kids
Sophia and Lucas. "Giving birth and being a mom helps me
connect with the women I work with," she says. In 2004,
Bicksler joined with doulas Shea Hardy, Bess Day, and Lisa
Rignell to found Doulas Supporting Teens, a non-profit group
that collaborates with teen-parent programs in five local
schools. "We also offer a mentorship program," says
Bicksler. "Three of our teen parents have become doulas."
happening people
photograph and story by Paul Neevel
Eugene Weekly / 12 April 2007
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